More and more people around the world are using dating apps. Does the Internet help or hinder establishing deeper relationships? In our opinion, it definitely helps. In today's article, we would like to provide you with some tips to make online dating so much easier. Getting well prepared for a date is half the battle. However, it's a lot of stress to think about what to talk about on a date. The conversation can encourage or discourage the other party. What's the best way to prepare for a date?
Stage fright before meeting a girl for the first time is largely related to the desire to present the best possible presentation. You will go on a date much more confident if you think about what you would prefer to avoid on your part before the meeting. These can be specific behaviors, certain topics of conversation, views, facts from life, or other aspects that you believe will show your weaknesses. This way, it is much easier for you to focus on what matters most during your first date. If, of course, you arrange further meetings, you will certainly be able to get to know yourself better on subsequent occasions. However, then your flaws will not matter much - in the eyes of a partner who has met you from the better side, they will only be an insignificant background. After all, the first impression is the most important thing!
Topics for a conversation with a girl, or rather the lack of them, can be a real nuisance for a large proportion of men. During dates - especially the first ones - we want to do our best and have something to talk about. Sometimes the biggest stress turns out to be the fact that "the conversation will not stick" and there will be an awkward silence, which we do not know how to stop, or that the topics we decide to talk about will turn out to be uninteresting for the other party, which will result in boring. The first meeting, conversations and getting to know each other together are very important at the beginning of any relationship and can have a big impact on how we will be perceived by the other party and whether she will want to meet again and learn more about us. During the first exchange of views, we can also find out whether we are "on the same wavelength", whether we have some common topics of conversation and topics to write (eg if we meet on the Internet) and whether we understand, for example, our jokes.
It's easiest to start many conversations with the topic of interest. It is the most universal and opens the door for further conversation. Talking about your interests can show how much you have in common or get interested in a completely new field. It gives an overview of how the other party likes to spend time. The topic of food often excites both sides. Not everyone has to be a chef, just start telling what you like, where you ate the most delicious dishes in your life or what you would never touch again. It is also a great topic for people who like to cook and share recipes. You don't have to be the type of traveler to be able to discuss it. All you have to do is share your memories of the places you have visited and your plans or dreams for the next ones. Often these are really exciting conversations.
Another interesting topic for conversation is movies, series and music. Exchange of opinions about a movie or one of the newest series is an extremely pleasant way of spending time. You can also be surprised by the similarity of interests or the unusual taste of the other party.
If you get to know a girl and her interests closer, it will be easier for you to find topics for conversation. Remember not to interrupt it and listen carefully, also paying attention to your body language. A very big advantage in such a situation is asking questions about the topic - it will show your chosen one that you are really interested in what to say and that you really want to learn more. However, avoid long, boring formulas, and instead try to choose the most interesting facts and focus on them. You can mention your work, school or university as much as possible, but do not have the whole conversation around it - remember that you want to interest your chosen one, not bore you. Just say briefly what you do. There will be time for serious topics to talk about.
Some people think that they should keep their hands on a date, while others are firmly convinced that they should touch a girl from the very beginning. You can get lost in it. How is it with that? Better to approach it quite spontaneously. This is very general advice, but it's the hardest to get confused about. Because sometimes the atmosphere will be such that you will be asking for a touch right away. For example, a girl on her way to the restaurant will lean on you. Then it would be appropriate to hug her. Other times it will be conservative. As this is the first date, it will have a distance. In this case, it is worth waiting with a touch. It's a good idea to give the girl a little space to feel comfortable before you start making out.
Patient building relationships, with mutual commitment, applies both in the real and virtual world. Do not force the first meeting with an avalanche of questions and suggestions. Each of you needs space and freedom to make the right decision at the right time. If a special feeling develops between you, everything will happen naturally and at a reasonable pace. There is no one universal rule that says how long a period should elapse from getting to know each other on a dating site to the first date. The same goes for how long the first date should be. It is worth trusting your so-called good gut feeling for a newly met person. Even though your first impressions can be deceptive, your intuition will never confuse you. Your job is just not to drown them out.
Being a nice and obedient boy is certainly not the way to get a girl interested in himself. A lot of men make just this mistake and are overly nice and precautionary. Instead of spending time with the girl at ease, they treat the girl like some goddess and even idolize her. These men talk to women about boring topics and flood the girl with tons of questions. They compliment the woman all the time, make love to her and are polite to the limit. What does this lead to? Until the woman loses interest!
Women are into what is inaccessible and hard to come by. They really hate easy, nice and predictable guys. They want mystery, challenge and masculinity! Why do girls so often turn to romance and all kinds of romantic films? Because these are the positions that keep them in suspense and secret until the very end! And women want something like that in their own lives. They want a man who can provide her with these emotions! Unfortunately, a nice and obedient boy is crossed at this level.